Don’t date a pilot. What are you crazy? Have you not seen Frequent Flyer? That guy had like 3 families in 2 different timezones. Not in Utah if you catch my drift. Ha! drift–that was an accidental pun.
Besides, whenever an emergency should arise (no pun intended) or an evening event, however miscellaneous or spontaneous, it is impossible to get ahold of a pilot thousands of miles away. You really want your lover to not be within drivable reach to make such decisions–a late night dinner instead of him sleeping in and catching up on rest for the next flight?… Okay, more power to you!